Well, it’s official, WE’RE MARRIED! (he says with trepidation with the impending election tomorrow when it could all be stripped away).
I wish I could say the day went off without a hitch (well, except for our getting hitched), but that just would be good blog fodder, now would it?
We spent all morning on Saturday cleaning the back yard, setting up tables and chairs, stringing lights, creating a beautiful little area for our ceremony to be held. It actually went rather smoothly. So we laid down around 2ish to try to get in a quick nap before the festivities began.
At 2:30 I heard Laurent jump out of bed and mumble something about rain. Then I heard him cursing.
Yes, although it never rains in California in November, it was indeed raining all over the tables and chairs and benches.
It wasn’t a downpour, more like a heavy sprinkle. And by the time we got downstairs it had stopped and the sky lightened up.
As we were standing there dumbstruck not sure of what to do, it started to sprinkle heavily again. Then it stopped.
Finally Laurent said we may have to move everything inside the house. Seating for 45 inside our fully-furnished house within hours before guests were supposed to arrive. I wasn’t looking forward to it
nor could I envision it honestly.
So in a last ditch effort I told him to run to the party rental place just a couple of blocks from our house to see if they rented tents.
While he was gone I jumped into the shower, mostly because I didn’t know what else to do with myself.
By the time he got back our friend Louise was over and they were looking at the hour-by-hour weather and it predicted scattered sprinkles for the rest of the evening.
So we started moving three rooms of furniture into our guest room and replacing it with wet tables and chairs.
Surprisingly it took us less than an hour to get everything set up and ready for guests. Marguerite and Louise finally left a few minutes after 4 to go home to get ready. I gave Oliver a bath and got him dressed and then finally got dressed myself.
Our officiant, Faith, was the first to arrive (while I was half-dressed and Laurent was running around upstairs nekkid!).
Because of the rain many of our guests were late, which ended up being for the better. We finally started the ceremony at 5:30. And as one of my friends said, it was magical! I have video of it but I think it may be too big for YouTube, but I’ll try to see (after I drop off our marriage license at the court house!).
Until then, there are many photos here. Enjoy!

November 3, 2008 at 10:34 am
YAY!!!!
November 3, 2008 at 10:34 am
Congratulations! YAY!
November 3, 2008 at 10:35 am
Congrats to you!!!
I’m so glad you had a wonderful day and this is behind you!
You all look wonderful!
November 3, 2008 at 10:37 am
Awesome. Awesome. Awesome. Congrats!!!
November 3, 2008 at 10:37 am
Isn’t rain on the wedding day good luck?
November 3, 2008 at 11:05 am
Congratulations! You both looked so handsome! And contrary to anything Alanis says, rain on your wedding day is considered VERY good luck.
November 3, 2008 at 11:24 am
it POURED on my wedding day, I also say its good luck…… sorry everything did not go as planned, but very thrilled that it was magical! Congrats!
November 3, 2008 at 11:27 am
Congratulations! looks like it was a fabulous day. You three guys looked very handsome and happy. Thrilled for you!
November 3, 2008 at 11:36 am
Congrats!!! I thought of you guys all day long!! I’m glad it went well – rain and all! You look so happy – God Bless!!
November 3, 2008 at 11:39 am
Congratulations!! I’m so happy for all of you. The pictures look wonderful; clearly a good time was had by all.
I’m with you, crossing my fingers and hoping that I’ll still be married after tomorrow. I really wish I could vote on Prop 8, but I’m in the wrong state.
November 3, 2008 at 11:40 am
Video? Are you seriously TRYING to make me teary yet AGAIN!?!?!
I think you could upload it in segments- if I recall you can do 10 minutes at a time? So you could do the first 10 minutes, then so on in seperate segments.
My parents had rain on their wedding day… 38 1/2 years ago
And regardless of what the election brings tomorrow, it WILL NOT ALL be stripped away. YOU ARE MARRIED in your hearts, with your souls, you were surrounded by those who love you (both those who were able to be present physcially and those of us who were not but where there in spirit)and NOTHING will ever strip that away.
Hugs and kisses to all three of you!
November 3, 2008 at 12:00 pm
Oh, Congrats!! You guys look so happy and you really deserve it Frank!
November 3, 2008 at 12:03 pm
Congratulations!
November 3, 2008 at 12:04 pm
Congratulations!!!
November 3, 2008 at 12:12 pm
CONGRATULATIONS! What a lovely occasion. I’m sure the sun was shining even though the rain was falling. I loved the pictures and hope things work out so we can see the video as well.
November 3, 2008 at 12:29 pm
Everyone has to have [i]something[/i] go wrong on their wedding day just so they can tell the story for years to come! I’m thrilled to pieces for you, Frank. Congratulations on your new [b]official[/b] family! Much love and happiness to all three of you!
November 3, 2008 at 12:37 pm
Congratulations to you and your husband!!
your photos are all wonderful, everyone looks so happy!
November 3, 2008 at 12:37 pm
That is the most beautiful photo of the three of you! Congratulations!!!
November 3, 2008 at 12:55 pm
Congratulations!
November 3, 2008 at 12:59 pm
Congratulations!! You are such a beautiful family!
November 3, 2008 at 1:52 pm
I’m so happy for the three of you. I think its wonderful. And no, Prop 8 cannot take it away. You were married in the presence of your friends and family by the State of California. they can say they will take it away, but you have video to prove it. As far as I’m concerned, you are a married couple. And look at the number of people that feel the same way. Congratulations! Does it feel different? ((hugs))
November 3, 2008 at 1:55 pm
Oh, and nice cake!!!!
November 3, 2008 at 1:56 pm
That was fun! (looking at the photos) Loved the cake. You know, I have to comment on that first and foremost.
I’m very happy for the 3 of y’all! Congratulations!
November 3, 2008 at 2:26 pm
Congratulations to the three of you!! Backyard weddings are the best. Mine took place 35 years ago, and is still going strong.
Our officiant was a drunken Justice of the Peace. Faith is a much nicer choice!!
November 3, 2008 at 2:44 pm
I’m so happy for you guys! It rained on my wedding day, and let’s just say it’s almost always blissful in my house, so rain is a good thing.
November 3, 2008 at 3:10 pm
Congratulations Frank! Looks like the day was a success and you both look so happy! I’m thrilled for you!
November 3, 2008 at 3:32 pm
Congratulations!
November 3, 2008 at 3:50 pm
Congratulations to you all
It looks like it was a great time!
November 3, 2008 at 4:23 pm
How wonderful Frank. A lifetime of happiness to all of you and much love from your Scots Bluebell! Mwah! xxx
November 3, 2008 at 4:23 pm
Way to go guys so are you going to come on down to NZ and have a honeymoon in the land of milk and honey:):):)
And im sure your freinds wernt worrying about the rain, they were there for you not the location
awesome pictures and i bet the ceremony was just wonderful
November 3, 2008 at 4:25 pm
WoooHooooo!!!! Great Day! It looks wonderful – magical really!!! congratulations! Lots of love from NC!!!!
November 3, 2008 at 5:29 pm
Congratulations! What a lovely family.
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November 3, 2008 at 5:33 pm
What a wonderful day. You all looked so very happy! I thought of you as I attended a bridal shower that was quickly moved inside on Saturday.
Love and Happiness.
November 3, 2008 at 6:16 pm
I don’t even know you and I teared up — congratulations!
November 3, 2008 at 6:40 pm
Congratulations.
May you have a thousand years of love & happiness together.
November 3, 2008 at 7:38 pm
Mazel Tov!! It looked like a beautiful ceremony.
Here’s to many years of wedded happiness for you both. L’Chaim!
November 3, 2008 at 7:51 pm
Congratulations to you and your HUSBAND! I am so pleased for your family. Mazel Tov!
November 3, 2008 at 8:07 pm
I’m a fairly new reader. You dont know me but please let me offer my congratulations on your happy occasion.
PS I will be voting with you tomorrow.
November 3, 2008 at 8:19 pm
One more Congratulations for you.
November 3, 2008 at 8:31 pm
Wonderful family, congratulations! Awesome pictures! I love that you spell nekkid like I do!
November 3, 2008 at 8:39 pm
Congrats!!! It rained on my wedding day, and we had to rearrange an outdoor reception. It was stressful, but everyone still had fun! Y’all did a fantastic job on making it a beautiful event! I love the pics!
November 3, 2008 at 11:07 pm
Congratulations Frank!!! No one deserves this happiness like you three do– your family is beautiful…
November 4, 2008 at 12:49 am
A million congratulations!
Take a peek at this video:
http://straightsagainsteight.blogspot.com/2008/11/no-on-proposition-h8.html
November 4, 2008 at 12:49 am
Oh Frank… we are so very happy for you, Laurent and Oliver. How beautiful you all are. We would love to send you a token of how much you mean to us and congratulate you on your wedding bliss.. if that is okay with you. Do you have a mail box address?
My husband and I enjoy reading all about your life… the ups and downs… the trials and tribulations… and now this moment of love and bliss. Thankyou for allowing us to witness these miracles of babies and weddings. Congratulations!
With love, the ‘Elswyk’ family… Nicole, Christopher, Isabella & Harrison. xox
November 4, 2008 at 2:03 am
Frank a huge congratulations to you both. The photos are fabulous and how sweet does little Oliver look!!
Melx
November 4, 2008 at 4:02 am
Oh – so beautiful. Congratulations. Thank you so much.
November 4, 2008 at 4:19 am
Congratulations. You look so handsome, all of you!!!! The cake is beautiful!
November 4, 2008 at 5:48 am
OMG!! I am SOOOOOOOoOOOoOoo happy for you two~!
Congratulations! You all make a *beautiful* family! and you deserve it just as much as ANYONE else!
:::jumpin up and down in excitement!!::: lol
Have a wonderful week!!
–Steens
November 4, 2008 at 6:05 am
Congratulations!!! Looks like a great time was had by all. Your cake is beautiful and looks delicious. BTW, your house is gorgeous!
November 4, 2008 at 6:35 am
Wow, how romantic! A wedding in your garden, BEAUTIFUL Frank. I don’t know how you pulled it off but you did, well done. It is for keeps, don’t worry about tomorrow.
BIG C*O*N*G*R*A*T*U*L*A*T*I*O*N*S
November 4, 2008 at 7:54 am
Gosh, Frank & Laurent & little Oliver! Soooo happy for you all! Your pics are lovely, the house is gorgeous—and that pic of the little man between you?? Yeah…beautiful!
I wish y’all the very best and sending y’all biiiig ol’ Southern gal hugs from TN!
No matter what happens tomorrow—like Deli said—you had a perfect day, surrounded by close friends and love, you’re married in your hearts! That is what matters!
Hugs & warm wishes,
–Kn0x–
November 4, 2008 at 8:03 am
I bounced here from Rabbitch’s blog.
Congratulations. I sincerely wish you the best and that the strong arm tactics by the morons that are for Prop 8 don’t win.
Our country’s based on equal rights for all. And you have the right to be happy with your husband and absolutely adorable son.
November 4, 2008 at 9:07 am
Congratulations Frank and L!! I love the pictures…thank you so much for sharing them. Hugs!!
November 4, 2008 at 9:11 am
Congratulations!
November 4, 2008 at 9:34 am
congrats!
November 4, 2008 at 10:57 am
Bravo all around, Frank. Years of married happiness and good health to your fine family. May Prop. 8 fail loudly and forever more!
November 4, 2008 at 12:42 pm
Congratulations to you all. I would just love for Prop 8 to fail as a wedding present for you.
November 4, 2008 at 1:38 pm
Congratulations! I wish you many years of happiness together.
November 4, 2008 at 2:48 pm
Oh Frank, I’m so happy for all of you. Your wedding looked beautiful and you two looked smashing! Oliver was as cute as ever too. Screw Prop 8…I hope things go your way tonight, but if not…you’re still married in all of our eyes! Hope you will have a celebration in the future where all of us that couldn’t be there with you can attend. Love and hugs to all of you!
November 4, 2008 at 3:05 pm
So many congratulations sent your way!
November 4, 2008 at 4:33 pm
Congrats! It looks like it was an absolutely lovely event. “They” say that rain that falls on your wedding day is good luck because it represents tears you won’t shed when you are married. I am not sure if my explanation makes any sense but I am very hopeful that it means good things in terms of the result on Prop 8.
November 4, 2008 at 4:41 pm
Congratulations! Wishing you a lifetime of happiness together!
November 4, 2008 at 8:56 pm
Mazal Tov! It looks like it was great fun, as well as very meaningful.
November 5, 2008 at 4:22 am
Oh massive congrats to you all Frank. Just been looking the pics, great times were had by all!
All the best for you guys!
November 5, 2008 at 7:51 am
I looked at your photos as a slide show on Monday, and I’m telling you, there were tears in my eyes. I’m just SO happy for you Frank! What a beautiful ceremony, decorations, food, people, everything looked perfect! It rained on my wedding day and everyone told me that was good luck, so the same goes for you two. I remember how happy I was to have you at my wedding 11 years ago, and I feel like I got to be a part of yours now. Congrats to you, Laurent, and the ever adorable Oliver. Many blessings on your family!
November 5, 2008 at 7:57 am
Congrats!! I am thrilled for you!! So thrilled your post brought tears to my eyes. I wish you all a happy and healthy future
November 5, 2008 at 10:36 am
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November 5, 2008 at 11:12 am
I can only hope to be so fortunate to find the kind of love you and Laurent share with each other and with your lovely Oliver. Many blessings and light to you always – love you, Frank!
November 5, 2008 at 7:59 pm
Congratulations! What a beautiful family!!! Xoxo
November 6, 2008 at 2:21 am
Lovely! Many happy years to you all!